Sunday, December 22, 2013

Obligatory Holiday Post

I'm not a big holiday person. Shocker. I know.

It might be all the people or high energy. It might be seeing other people so damn happy because they either a. LOVE holidays or b. are out of their minds drunk because of the stress. Maybe it's the stress. Maybe there's another reason. I'm not sure. Holidays are just normal days with fancy meanings attached to them. Holidays are another way to show the passing of time.

However, sometimes things happen that even I can't ignore. They are selling these at my church.

take a ho to go

guess the chimney wasn't warmed up/easy access
Too far? Maybe.

Many of the other blogs I read have said that they can't quite get into the holiday spirit this year. I feel the same way (especially when it's 80* out) but no more so than any other year. My mom is very festive and really likes holidays. She has put bells on every door (including the ones to the bathroom). I think she's the only reason we celebrate holidays. But I guess everyone needs a few days a year to stop preaching non-consumerism and/or be a hypocrite. As we shop, we talk not only about consumerism but also about "trickle-up" economics, and we complain about people buying into things (literally and figuratively).

Maybe it's by habit. Maybe it's because it's the norm. I know one family who doesn't celebrate any holidays. If I ever have kids, I don't know how I will raise them. We would probably do a gift exchange, but I can't imagine trying to explain "Santa" (who's a creeper in my opinion). I think my sister, my elder by six years, believed in Santa longer than I did. I don't remember if I ever believed at all. I don't think I did. I mean I think that little traditions are cute and fun, but it just isn't me, you know? I'm not religious, so why would I celebrate the birth of a religious figure? Even if the holiday isn't really about that anymore.

Why do you celebrate the holidays?

Also, my crack (that's also a snack) hit the shack with a whack. Or, you know, people really liked it. I never thought I'd hear the word "crack" after my name as much as I did today. Also me and my friend kept making up things like "take a bite... you'll see the light."

Also, my mood's been back down again. I think it might be partly environmental, but I wish we'd hadn't reduced the dosage of one of my meds when both my therapist and psychiatrist are out of their offices until the second. Such is life.

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I guess I celebrate Christmas because it is tradition. It is certainly more of a cultural holiday for me. I was thinking about what I would do if I had kids the other day and was a bit stumped. I suppose it would depend on the mother's viewpoint more than mine!
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I suppose that's the best answer as to why I celebrate it as well. That and my mom's love for tradition.

I think in a relationship it depends on who feels more strongly about it. My dad always said he wouldn't push Santa on his kids but then went with it because of my mom. Well, that and so we would understand what other children were talking about. Also, my older sister (different dad) had been fed the story since she was little.
I am most definitely a holidays person. I know some people who are not (e.g. my bf, but I know he loves it a little)...I guess I kind of get the point but on the other hand, I just get a little too excited. Like you said, people are happy and don't think about things like work.

I personally love giving things to people (I hand make gifts), so it's just me as a person who loves the holidays because I know I have this schedule and it drives me to make things, package it up and make sure that I am happy inside when all looks good!
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I guess I'm still working on that part, haha.

I also love giving gifts. I would much rather watch someone open a gift from me than receive one myself.
I guess I'd have to say that I celebrate the holidays mostly because I grow up with it as a tradition and it was just something that stuck on me throughout the years. But I'd have to say I both am and am not a holidays person haha. I enjoy the break we have and the idea of giving and receiving gifts but like you said, I'm one of those people that end up complaining about all the money spent for it. But I agree on your part for the religious aspect of this holiday. Like I myself am a Catholic so it's kind of expected that I celebrate it, but like I know people that aren't but celebrate it, and I never really understood why either.
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If you are Catholic I would absolutely expect you to celebrate some form of Christmas. I understand that it's a religious holiday. I just think it's blown out of proportion. It's gone from being a religion thing to a commercialized tradition. But, I can't say I mind the time off from school.
I'm usually far more festive and hyped up in the season's 'good cheer', but this year I've just felt a bit 'meh' about the whole thing. It's been harder to get into the festive spirit for some reason. We've had a lovely day with family and an awesome dinner nevertheless, but I normally enjoy the build up toward Christmas Day and this year it seems to have flown in!
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That seems to be a pretty common theme among bloggers this year. I've heard (well, read) a lot of people say that for some reason it's harder to get worked up about the holidays.

Time does seem to go by faster and faster. Which makes sense, but is alarming nevertheless. I'm glad you had a good Christmas.
I know exactly how you feel. When I was younger, Christmas was such a big deal because presents! Time off school! Fun times! Now that I'm an 'adult' it consists of spending money on presents (that don't get me wrong, I LOVE giving because the reactions are always fun), working all through the holidays (especially since I'm working retail this season) and driving to multiple different places for family events. It's just not nearly as fun as it was before, and they play Christmas music WAY too early now. My mom + older sister are SUPER into Christmas so there are Christmas movies, decorations, songs, etc. from early November on. Maybe that's what does it for me...
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I'm not sure that I ever really felt like that. Maybe a little? I just always knew that I "should." I think after a certain point, holidays switch from super fun to super stressful. For almost everyone. And it seems to happen so quickly, too.

I agree that everyone starts getting ready far too early. Your mom and older sister are probably in the few that are the exception to what I said before. I think that Christmas shouldn't be thought about until the beginning of December. I think this was the very first year that I bought presents for my family in advance.

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